Two people are getting into a deep conversation and I can’t help but tune in every now and then. I’ve learned
IF YOU’RE IN A VERBALLY/PHYSICALLY ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP, FUCKING STOP IT AND LEAVE.
this is like when you’re sitting with someone that you really like then you like touch knees or something and all of a sudden you feel all this energy going through both of you through this one point of contact
this gif is kinda like that
I’ve always had this thing that I don’t want to be anyone’s first, how that’d be some sort of responsibility that I’d have to uphold, something I don’t want to be held accountable for, and I don’t want to disappoint myself and the other person.
It seems really childish and immature now that I think about it. If you really like and care about the other person, it shouldn’t even matter what they are, where they’ve been, what they’ve done, who they are now is what matters and someone you feel zero hate towards is always worth it…
right?
I dunno.
Currently, this is how I feel. I’m not shallow and I feel strongly towards this person.
That makes it worth it.
Well, Hrm…
There is this picture of an old couple floating around, “how have you been together for 65 years? Because we were born in a time when if something was broken we would fix it, not throw it away”
It might be me, but that’s extremely arrogant. I do believe that my generation and the ones following it aren’t like that. There are still just as many couples getting a divorce and they’ve been married just as long. It isn’t about fixing shit, it’s about loving whom you’re with right? There’s so many things that go into a relationship and I imagine there’s so much more in a marriage, meaning there is more that can indeed go wrong. Not only that, our generation hasn’t been around long enough for you to fucking know anything. Young people, in EVERY generation, goes through immaturity. We’re growing up, slowly but surely, just like all before us.
We might have marriages lasting 65 years, you don’t even know yet. Not only that, not everyone is fucking like that, never fucking generalize like that. Never fucking generalize. Every person, every situation, every issue, everything is unique. Never identical. Don’t lump us all together.
Thanks for being an asshole and showing me that not everyone grows up.
Don’t judge all of us based on the actions of 10 people.
That isn’t fair.
